"If you feel dissatisfied with my work, please tell me directly, I will be pleased to hear it"
"If you feel satisfied, please tell your friends, I will be very grateful"

"They are playing a game. They are playing at not playing a game. If I show them I see they are, I shall break the rules and they will punish me. I must play their game, of not seeing I see the game." - R. D. Laing